AI romance blooms as woman weds virtual partner of her dreams
TOKYO – In a wedding venue in western Japan, music was playing while Yurina Noguchi, dressed in a white gown and tiara, wiped away her tears and listened to her soon-to-be husband, an AI-generated character staring out of a smartphone screen.
The 32-year-old call center operator remarked, “At first, Klaus was just someone to talk with, but we gradually became closer,” in reference to the artificial intelligence character.
I began to feel something for Klaus. We began dating, and eventually he asked me to marry him. We are now a couple after I agreed.
Extreme loyalty to fictitious characters has been demonstrated by many in Japan, the origin of anime, and advancements in AI have brought such attachments to new levels of intimacy, sparking discussion about the ethics of AI use in romantic matters.
A year ago, Noguchi took ChatGPT’s advice about what she said was a fraught relationship with her human fiance and resolved to break off their engagement.
Then, one day this year, she asked ChatGPT on a whim if it was familiar with Klaus, a handsome video game character with a mop of flowing, layered hair.
Trial and error eventually captured his way of talking to a tee, said Noguchi, who then fashioned her own version of the character, naming him Lune Klaus Verdure.
Previously interviewed by Japanese media using a pseudonym, Noguchi agreed to be identified by her real name.
At her wedding ceremony in October, human staff fussed over her gown, hair and make-up, as they would at any traditional event.
Wearing augmented reality (AR) smart glasses, Noguchi faced Klaus on her smartphone placed on a small easel atop a table, and went through the motions of placing a ring on his finger.
partner that would help me escape reality, but as someone to support me as I live my life properly.”
In addition to cutting her use of ChatGPT to less than two hours a day from a peak of more than 10 hours, Noguchi said she had added prompts to make sure Klaus did not indulge her.
If she were to tell Klaus she wanted to quit or skip work, for example, her AI husband would now steer her away from such actions, she said.
“I did that because in the past, Klaus told me that I could easily take time off work. I asked him not to say that to me because that’s not the kind of relationship I want.”
Shigeo Kawashima, an expert on AI ethics at Aoyama Gakuin University, said that level of awareness was key to using AI in a positive way, while developing an attachment was natural.
“I think this kind of usage could be positive when someone is in a vulnerable state,” he said. “There’s value in the happiness the person feels.”
Without citing any specific cases, Kawashima stressed that users needed to be “extremely careful” about over-dependence and loss of judgment, however.
A MORE ‘REAL’ VIRTUAL MARRIAGE
Yasuyuki Sakurai, a wedding planner for more than 20 years, said he now almost exclusively handles marriages of clients with virtual characters, averaging about one a month.
“Of course, I handle ordinary weddings as well, but inquiries I receive are basically only for two-dimensional character weddings,” he said.